The day poor Hamish passed, I went in haste through the crossing, for I thought I might fetch him back. But even in the Betwixt, things done cannot be undone. 

The Betwixt resists. It no more desires a traveler than a sparrow wishes to be held.

And yet, if one is very still, with a mind clear of daily chores and cares, one can feel the edges begin to crumble, like a biscuit in the fish pond.

A tea of dried Mugwort helps free the mind of worry.* A bit of Yarrow in the tea is also helpful, as it calms the mind.  The addition of honey is a welcome treat, for the tea is quite bitter.

It is also advisable to create one's own ritual that will aid in the act of crossing. Reading the Good Book, writing, or perhaps needlework can bring about the trance needed to cross.

It is of utmost importance to be prepared for the return. While our time is more welcoming than the other, once a traveler is on the other side, the poor soul begins to forget and his desire to return wanes. Care must be taken to ensure one remembers which side of the crossing is home. The scent of rosemary is known to aid the traveler with memories of home, as are personal adornments such as hair clips, rings and the like.

*A woman with child must not consume Mugwort, as it can be used to hasten the arrival of the babe.

Tell All the Truth But Tell it Slant

Tell all the truth but tell it slant.

Success in Circuit lies

Too bright for our infirm Delight

The Truth's superb surprise

As Lightning to the Children eased

With explanation kind

The Truth must dazzle gradually

Or every man be blind.

-- Emily Dickinson

[Note: "E.D. Keeper or Traveler?" written in the margin in a different handwriting.]